First Memoir

Book cover for Never Knew I Wanted to Be a Breast Cancer Survivor by Rebecca J. Hogue, featuring the smiling author with a shaved head, wearing a plaid shirt and earbuds.

Never Knew I Wanted to be a Breast Cancer Survivor brings you into Becky’s world as a young breast cancer survivor. Becky shares her experiences with treatment starting the day after she first heard the words “you have breast cancer”. Throughout her treatment, she explains her thought processes as she grapples with life altering treatment decisions: which chemotherapy regime? to reconstruct or not reconstruct?

Becky’s story is a powerful reminder of the strength and resilience of those who have faced this disease. Her raw and honest account is both humorous and serious, and will have you laughing and crying as you relate to her feelings and learn from her discoveries.

This book is not only a must-read for breast cancer survivors, but also for their loved ones and healthcare practitioners. It provides valuable insights and practical advice on navigating the breast cancer journey. Order your copy today and be inspired by Becky’s journey as a breast cancer survivor.

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Book Review

Reviewed by Carol Thompson for Readers’ Favorite

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Never Knew I Wanted to Be a Breast Cancer Survivor by Rebecca J. Hogue is a deeply personal account of being diagnosed with breast cancer at a young age and navigating the physical and emotional changes that followed. The memoir begins with the discovery of a lump, the denial that it’s anything more than a strained muscle, and the diagnosis. The book follows her through medical appointments, treatment decisions, surgeries, uncertainty, and the ongoing challenge of adjusting to a future she never expected. Rather than presenting only the medical side of illness, the narrative focuses on the emotional experience of living through treatment while trying to maintain ordinary routines and relationships. Rebecca reflects on fear, frustration, exhaustion, humor, and the moments of connection that helped her keep moving forward. The memoir also addresses the complicated nature of decision-making after a diagnosis, particularly for younger patients who are forced to consider long-term consequences while under emotional strain.

I enjoyed how it was written—very conversationally, as if she were speaking only to me. Rebecca J. Hogue writes directly and emotionally. She is honest about fear and medical uncertainty while infusing the narrative with humor and self-awareness, keeping it balanced. The medical terminology and procedures are explained naturally, making the memoir informative without losing its personal focus. Readers who enjoy memoirs centered on health journeys, emotional perseverance, and firsthand experiences with illness will appreciate the author’s straightforward, personal voice. The strongest sections are often the quieter moments when Rebecca reflects on her identity and expectations, and how quickly life can change after a diagnosis. Never Knew I Wanted to Be a Breast Cancer Survivor will especially appeal to readers seeking a personal perspective on breast cancer from someone navigating it at a younger age. Rebecca’s sincerity allows each experience to speak for itself.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this a true story?

Yes this is the true story of Becky’s experience with breast cancer.

What is the author’s nationality?

The author is a Canadian, now residing in Nova Scotia Canada.

Where does the story take place?

The story takes place in the San Francisco Bay Area, in the United States.

Is the author still alive and cancer free?

Yes the author is alive. Although there is never a way to know for certain, at the time of answering this question, the author does not believe she has cancer.

Is this just a copy of the blog?

No. This book is based upon an autoethnographic study of the BC Becky blog. The text has been completely rewritten and edited to include details not shared in the blog.

Is this book written with Generative AI?

No. This book was written before Generative AI was available to the general public. It was 100% written by the author.

What are the themes in the book?

The themes include: developing coping mechanisms, navigating the healthcare system, Learning about the disease, understanding side effects, advocating, exploring body image, making decision, and navigating identity

Is there an audiobook version?

Not at this time. The author has explored and began publishing a podcast related to this book and her second breast cancer diagnosis. Titled: Never Knew I Wanted to be a Breast Cancer Survivor, available on most streaming platforms.